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Avoiding them might change your entire love life.

Let's be honest: Nobody wants to be in an unhealthy and messy relationship. We all want to have great and satisfying relationships.

Although, it's logically impossible to be in a perfect relationship because there's nothing as such, but we can at least hope for relationships where deep understanding and mutual respect for each other's individuality exist.

Yet, we are the ones making things difficult for ourselves and our partners by adopting and displaying habits that are nothing but pointless, energy-depleting, and even unproductive.

And the worst part?

These habits only make us terrible partners and hinder our dreams of having…


5 Tactics that'll level up your email marketing game.

How often do you sigh in disappointment when reading some boring self-promotional newsletters? And how often do you hiss, click delete, or unsubscribe from those same newsletters?

Many companies and even content creators make us cringe at their irrelevant and self-serving emails and newsletters we care less about. Forcing us to ignore their subsequent emails or newsletters or even unsubscribe from their lists.

But does this mean that Newsletters are dead and ineffective?

Absolutely not! In my opinion, I think as content marketers, we just need to view The Newsletter through a different lens.

The new era of e-newsletters: Newsletters and romantic dates.

Imagine going on a romantic date…


If you’re struggling to be productive then these truths may just change the way you look at productivity

Truths about time management
Truths about time management

I can't tell you how frustrating the struggle with time management and productivity is.

And maybe you've also squandered a fair amount of time looking for practical and effective ways to make the most out of your time.

But the thing is, some of the tips and hacks we mostly come across are somewhat ludicrous.

All they do is force us into frustration and depression as we mostly have little or no success implementing them.

I finally noticed that there is a lot of good advice hidden beneath a lot of exaggerated or even counter-productive pieces of advice. And here…


And help you stick to your dreams no matter the difficulties you face

Some people seem to have superhuman powers...

They persistently chase after their personal and professional goals year in, year out, while a lot of other people quit theirs.

They always manage to stay strong and persevere even through the toughest of times.

How do they do it?

Well, it isn't magic. They are mentally tough.

Mentally strong people have strong abilities to stick to something no matter the difficulties they face...

They aren’t brought down by failure, discouragement, burnout, fatigue, self-limiting beliefs, stress, etc...

And they always devise a way to succeed and excel at their tasks, projects, or any…


We are all guilty of one or more of these habits but noticing them and nipping them in the bud will help improve your relationships

As humans and social beings, the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. Without deep and meaningful relationships with our family members, friends, colleagues, romantic partners, and so on, our lives become lonely. That's why we all crave quality, deep, and healthy relationships.

But most of the time, most people get in the way and sabotage the success of their own relationships. And at the end of the day, they cast blames on whatever they like for the misfortunes of their relationships.

But unless they address and fix their personal problems, issues, and behaviors, they'll forever wallow…


And how to avoid or save yourself from such rat holes.

We often wonder why things happen the way they do. We ask ourselves questions like why did my lover leave me? Why does life keep messing with me? Why can’t I get anything right?

And when we think of other people's situations, sometimes we wonder why bad things happen to good people: why did she have to go through all that? What has he done to deserve this? Why did she have to end up with such a messy partner? And so on.

We humans are curious creatures. It's our curiosity that often leads us to seek explanations to things…


They fuel unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings.

When I first started dating after being single for half a year (due to the failure of my previous relationship) I tried to cultivate as many positive, healthy relationship habits as possible.

I made my relationship a top priority in my life, learned to speak my girlfriend's love language, always tried to make the first move and listen effectively.

Yet, seven months later, I didn't feel happier, contented, or more fulfilled.

And I didn't understand why things consistently seem to be off no matter how hard I tried to make things better.

Put in the hard, loving work or efforts…


A guide to strengthening and cementing the bonds of your relationships.

Even though romantic relationships encompass one of the most significant aspects of life, and are a source of deep fulfillment for some of us, finding and building healthy and satisfying relationships is everything but easy.

In fact, in a Psychology Today post, Neha Gajwani mentioned that over half of American adults aged 18-34 don't have a significant other.

This proves how challenging it is to find and keep healthy romantic relationships in this current day and time.

The bad news is that we aren't taught relationship education in school and that might be the reason why most of us suck…


There's no excuse to leave you hanging.

Sandra Allison recently met this guy who she really like, and they started dating and her heart was filled with excitement she can't wait to spend the rest of her life with him...

She started doing everything in her power to make sure the relationship works out fine without even being sure if he feels the same way about her.

Not until things start going bad and she found herself ignoring the really bad ones because she don't want to admit the person she love isn’t actually that great for her,

Unfortunately she found herself in a terrible relationship and…


The real reasons behind shallow and superficial relationships.

That's all you want. You want to have great relationships. When you're in a happy and healthy relationship, you feel content and positive.

Because the quality of your life is a reflection of the quality of your relationships not just with your romantic partner but with people around you.

“The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.” -Tony Robbins

That's why we all crave quality, deep, and healthy relationships. But most of the time, most people get in the way and sabotage the success of their own relationships. …

John Emmanuel

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